Everybody loves celebrations.There might be very few people who will beg to differ from the above statement.Some might be a silent spectator if not an active participant.Sitting, may be standing or half reclined in a self-isolated corner and observing from a tilting distance all the fun happening admist around them but by choice not directly involved.A self chosen way of celebration!
So after all we did have our share of celebration of our Half Birthday..Yayy..finally the thought received some kind of credit.It was done in my own way of minimalism.I’m trying to promote this idea in my head to have best of both worlds…Err..thats not honest though.Though I have started believing in being minimalistic and purge our lives from the unrequired things..which we keep hoarding for some day or for something which unfortunately never find its due worth and perhaps goes in thrash or always stays hiding.
(This being one of my desire to learn, declutter, execute and follow this approach)
Well I do want to do things without posing much harm to our pockets and be able to do something instead of nothing!
So as little as she is ..we had a little celebration, we dressed her in one of the few girly things we possess as we are seemingly outgrowing our beautiful clothes at a very fast pace and I do not wish to hoard more clothes and other reason being my better half doesn’t approve of lil girly things for reasons best known to him.Oh if I start the saga of clothes they would never end..In my excitement I bought huge stock from both India and locally..
And believe me..She outgrew 90% of them in just matter of three months.Even when the label said 6-9 months or few even 9-12 months.These tags can be quite delusional combined with a fact with lil big baby..fitting into majority of clothes was difficult.Blessed to have a plump lil one.
Some day I wish to make some crafty things from some of them!That was one perfect example of figures of speech..hope you remember your school days.Guess..Repetition!Bingo!So I do not want to be another hoarder.
This pastel ensemble was lovingly sent by my sister-in-love across the borders. We cut our cake sans any candles as I couldn’t think of ways to depict the fraction 1/2 then and now, as I write my mind is bursting with ideas of how I could’ve easily managed! Nevertheless a lesson learnt with little planning ahead better results can be obtained. I thought of having a placard stating “Half Birthday” but ended up writing in a small whiteboard.Truly time and tide waits for none..Wish I practice and manage more within the limited frame!can see the strong implications of the lines now..Though the prop was quite a pretty thing in its own way..like a retro announcement on a blackboard with chalk..here the difference being the reverse;whiteboard with black marker..
Taking pictures was a Herculean task.We tried distracting her to look at our so called “camera” the smart phone which works best in instant world.We got other things to catch her attention but all went flop!In all my attempts I failed miserably to capture the “perfect shot” alsk we had to keep the “half cake” intact to avoid being smash cake for now..So it stayed away from her..And all I could manage was this!
The “half cake ” is a story in itself. I really wanted to stick to the idea of half.Likewise I wasn’t even okay to buy a whole and then cut it into half!“Being Minimalist”..haha
Neither I was ready to goard the extra pieces and add to unwanted elements in the body.Nor did I wanted to spend for the customised version.So we settled for in between..with three pastries combined together to give a look of “half” a cake..And hello..doesn’t beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.It might not look to others..but I decided in my mind it looks so and it was absolutely yummilicious with a sweet concort of cream and “red velvet” though it lacked the right texture of the authentic.nevertheless it didn’t disappoint with the taste! All said and done..I still succeeded in making a memory for the event be it so small as this.This could have never been achieved without the support of my better half,who gladly changed his mind to celebrate some frivolous thought of mine.Much ado.
In our quest to aim for grander and perfect celebrations with many and inadvertently not have one, it is better to have something even if its a sloppy and meant just for ourselves.
Yes I would like perfection but if I am unable to reach it within my abilities at present..wouldn’t it be much better to try something which might not even reach the set standard but a satisfaction of a successful attempt..
I leave you with this thought! It applies to many of our situations and also to many areas of our lives.